According to anthropologist Clifford Geertz:
…Accounts of other peoples’ subjectivities can be built up without recourse to pretensions to more-than-normal capacities for ego effacement and fellow feeling. Normal capacities in these respects are, of course, essential, as is their cultivation, if we expect people to tolerate our intrusions into their lives at all and accept us as persons worth talking to. I am certainly not arguing for insensitivity here, and hope I have not demonstrated it. But whatever accurate or half-accurate sense one gets of what one’s informants are, as the phrase goes, really like does not come from the experience of that acceptance as such, which is part of one’s own biography, not of theirs. It comes from the ability to construe their modes of expression, what I would call their symbol systems, which such an acceptance allows one to work toward developing. Understanding the form and pressure of, to use the dangerous word one more time, natives’ inner lives is more like grasping a proverb, catching an allusion, seeing a joke — or, as I have suggested, reading a poem — than it is like achieving communion.
I would say that understanding another person is best demonstrated not through descriptions of the other, but through successful social interactions. Being able to quote the right proverb for the situation, making a meaningful allusion in a conversation, telling a hilarious joke or writing a beautiful, subtly moving poem shows a level of understanding that cannot be faked.
In a commercial setting, an organization demonstrates understanding (at some level or another) through its offerings. The more levels of understanding demonstrated by an offering, the more meaningful the organization’s brand is to the one experiencing it — to the point where the experience is less like a passive experiencing of something than an active participation in a relationship. The customer’s own self-identity is aligned with and invested in the brand. Participation in brand relationship — that’s where real advocacy begins.
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Brands can just be identifying symbols, serving the purpose of a face and a proper name. Having a brand is renouncing the irresponsibility of anonymity. There is something given capable of having a reputation, the relationship has a future.
A brand can be a mnemonic device — something to help you remember past value — promising, on the basis of a past, a like future. A particular brand and good experiences gradually become synonymous, in an almost Pavlovian fashion. The brand’s content is the impression of what the company has done.
A brand can actually make a promise and exist as a promise (or a contract). The promise might start out as a compelling idea, but in action it becomes a compelling actuality and a compelling anticipation.
A brand can signal to you that it is already aligned to your own way of seeing. It sees eye to eye with you.
A brand can show you new ways of seeing the world, and seeing that way might improve your world.