Brand relationship = advocacy

According to anthropologist Clifford Geertz:

…Accounts of other peoples’ subjectivities can be built up without recourse to pretensions to more-than-normal capacities for ego effacement and fellow feeling. Normal capacities in these respects are, of course, essential, as is their cultivation, if we expect people to tolerate our intrusions into their lives at all and accept us as persons worth talking to. I am certainly not arguing for insensitivity here, and hope I have not demonstrated it. But whatever accurate or half-accurate sense one gets of what one’s informants are, as the phrase goes, really like does not come from the experience of that acceptance as such, which is part of one’s own biography, not of theirs. It comes from the ability to construe their modes of expression, what I would call their symbol systems, which such an acceptance allows one to work toward developing. Understanding the form and pressure of, to use the dangerous word one more time, natives’ inner lives is more like grasping a proverb, catching an allusion, seeing a joke — or, as I have suggested, reading a poem — than it is like achieving communion.

I would say that understanding another person is best demonstrated not through descriptions of the other, but through successful social interactions. Being able to quote the right proverb for the situation, making a meaningful allusion in a conversation, telling a hilarious joke or writing a beautiful, subtly moving poem shows a level of understanding that cannot be faked.

In a commercial setting, an organization demonstrates understanding (at some level or another) through its offerings. The more levels of understanding demonstrated by an offering, the more meaningful the organization’s brand is to the one experiencing it — to the point where the experience is less like a passive experiencing of something than an active participation in a relationship. The customer’s own self-identity is aligned with and invested in the brand. Participation in brand relationship — that’s where real advocacy begins.

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Brands can just be identifying symbols, serving the purpose of a face and a proper name. Having a brand is renouncing the irresponsibility of anonymity. There is something given capable of having a reputation, the relationship has a future.

A brand can be a mnemonic device — something to help you remember past value — promising, on the basis of a past, a like future. A particular brand and good experiences gradually become synonymous, in an almost Pavlovian fashion. The brand’s content is the impression of what the company has done.

A brand can actually make a promise and exist as a promise (or a contract). The promise might start out as a compelling idea, but in action it becomes a compelling actuality and a compelling anticipation.

A brand can signal to you that it is already aligned to your own way of seeing. It sees eye to eye with you.

A brand can show you new ways of seeing the world, and seeing that way might improve your world.

Cognition, behavior and affect

A person who wishes to understand the pragmatic convergence of cognition, action and affect — who wishes not only to conceive and explore possibilities but to systematically research and test these possibilities — is facing a situation beyond the scope of individual efforts. He will need to find collaborators and sponsors: people invested in understanding the interrelations between how a person, or a particular kind of person perceives, understands, values and behaves.

Genius vs ingenuity

Finding a new way to see a matter — a vision which opens up new possibilities of thought and action, and in fact a new orientation to things — then allowing one’s ideas to grow out of these new possibilities — that is how genius invents. Genius sees a different problem, then resolves it in an unexpected way.

Seeing things just like everyone else already sees them and using one’s wits to scavenge for overlooked facts or recombinations — that is how ingenuity innovates. Ingenuity sees the same problem as everyone else and finds new ways to resolve it.

There are definitely degrees of genius and ingenuity. A person can have a very minor genius and learn to see some small thing in a new, slightly more productive way. A person can have a great deal of ingenuity and make enormous strides forward in some field without making the slightest change to how anyone  understands anything. The difference is a qualitative one. The word “genius” should be connotatively deflated a little, and denotatively sharpened up a lot, so it can be discussed rationally.

The missing role

When we cannot get a grip on a problem, the problem grips us, and then we are perplexed.

We cannot even say what the problem is. We talk around the problem, and we talk about the problem, but we cannot state the problem.

Perplexities suck.

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A perplexity is not resolved by an answer.

An answer resolves a question.

Only a question can resolve a perplexity.

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A perplexity is a problem without a question.

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A perplexity is deeply unsettling. Its effect tends to bleed beyond the problematic domain, into the rest of one’s life.

It makes people feel generally uneasy, unsettled, irritable. A group gripped by a perplexity is prone to frustration, anxiety, conflict and sometimes even despair. A perplexed individual cannot make up his mind, and finds himself “torn” or “split” or “of two minds”. People find themselves thinking, seeing and talking at cross-purposes, and disagreeing on what is relevant and irrelevant, disagreeing even with themselves from moment to moment, or holding self-contradictory positions. We don’t know what to do with it, or how to talk about it. Things are just wrong.

Obviously we want to settle a perplexity as quickly as possible, and make it go away.

We want things to settle down. We want to settle down.

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Perplexities occur when we apprehend the existence of a problem, but we cannot comprehend what the problem is.

Apprehension — (ad- ‘toward’ + prehendere ‘lay hold of’).

Comprehension — (com- ‘together’ + prehendere ‘lay hold of’).

Think about the difference between feeling apprehensive and possessing comprehensive knowledge.

Human beings hate feeling apprehensive, anxious and perplexed. We like to feel comprehensive, stable and clear.

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My view on perplexity is this: despite the painful nature of perplexity, it is a natural and inevitable part of life, not something to regret, but to embrace and master.

But this kind of mastery is very different from most forms of practical, theoretical or technical mastery. We haven’t even identified the need for it, despite the fact that many of the more unpleasant experiences we have in life are caused by it.

The problem of perplexity itself is perplexing us.

It is dogging us in politics, and in education, and most of all in business.

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It is very easy to confuse a perplexity with a question, especially when you think about things in terms of having an answer versus not having an answer.

We need answers before we can take action. We do not want to sit idly. We are action-oriented. (Doesn’t that have a positive ring to it?) We want to act.

So — where we lack answers, we decide on an answer and go with it.

But when we try to answer a perplexity as if it were a question, the perplexity lives on in the answers. We keep discovering deep flaws in our solutions, and those flaws perplex us. We patch them over, and move on until the next flaw festers to the surface. The process of developing a solution turns into a long series of hacks, tweaks and adjustments.

The work is also shot through with controversy, strife, cynicism, compromise and coercion. An answer can only be judged in reference to a question. A perplexity lacks the clarity of a question, so the judgment of solutions is largely a “political” one (in the worst sense). It’s a matter of of arbitrary (arbiter ‘judge, supreme ruler,’) taste or opinion.  Whose taste or opinion matters most? The person or group with the most power.

Without a guiding question, “hard calls”, “executive decisions”, and forced “buy in” replace true dialogue and deliberation.

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To summarize:

When a perplexity is confused with a question and answered, things do not fall into place. Rather, things are forced into place — and often people are forced to force things into place.

The matter is settled, but settled artificially.

The answer does not resolve the problem; the answer conceals the problem.

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Regarding business:

Some service organizations offer solutions to known problems. The client knows the solution to the problem, and just needs a vendor to provide that solution.

Some service organizations solve problems their clients ask them to solve. The client knows what their problem is, and needs a vendor to develop a solution to that problem.

Some service organizations help their clients resolve perplexities. The client senses something is wrong, and… wants someone just to provide a solution or just to develop a solution to a problem. They don’t know any other response. If the vendor just obeys, and provides the solution the client wants, or just solves the problem as the client presents it, the vendor fails the client, and often loses the business.

Or alternatively they defy the client and “follow our process” (“isn’t that what we were hired for?”), without the involvement of the client.

The very best service organizations listen and lead and deconstruct their clients wishes into perplexities, clarify the perplexities into clearly defined problems and resolve the problems with solutions.

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“A philosophical problem has the form: I don’t know my way about.” – Ludwig Wittgenstein

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What most companies are missing and do not realize they are missing is the role of philosopher.

A business philosopher is a consultant who specializes in resolving perplexities by asking the right productive questions.

I would argue that philosophy is the cornerstone of business innovation. Philosophy is basically the practice of thinking about things people have not yet figured out how to think about, of working out approaches to problems people have not yet learned to approach, seeing problems that haven’t even been seen or recognized as problems, much less soluble problems.

I realize most MBAs will hear the world “philosopher” reject it out of hand. It’s a ludicrous word.

But my prediction is that soon “philosophy” will have more buzz power than “dialogue”, or “story”, or “community.”

Fitting into the customer’s life

“What do we want them to do?” “How do we want them to perceive us and our offerings?” “What do we want them to think?”

Everybody is bent on changing people’s perceptions and behaviors. And certainly, a great experience does change perceptions and behaviors — but is that necessarily the best way to think about the problem?

I like to bring things back to the concrete immediacy of personal relationships. In this domain, the direct approach isn’t always the best one. Personally, the minute I get the feeling someone is trying to control my actions, perceptions and beliefs, I become wary.  Like many people, I don’t like feeling manipulated or controlled.

It’s not that I am unaware that a salesperson wants me to buy what he’s selling. It’s that this goal needs to be a secondary one.

The primary goal needs to at least appear to be the greatest mutual benefit. To the degree it doesn’t, the transaction feels icky.

The question I suggest as an alternative is this: “Where do we want to fit into this person’s life?” This question is followed by: “How do we earn the right to be there?”

Then we can ask: “What behaviors indicate we have earned a place in the customer’s life?”

Answer – Question – Answer

It seems counter-intuitive, but it seems to be human nature to jump directly from an intuited need straight to an answer, without ever bothering to clarify the need and posing it as a question or a defined problem. This means that much of the time it is difficult to agree on the suitability of an answer, because there’s no standard against which the answer can be measured.

It might seem logical to resolve this situation with a self-disciplined refraining from answering questions before the questions have been asked, but maybe it would make even more sense to work with the grain of human nature, and to take a Jeopardy approach: start with answers as clues to what the question may be, then working backwards to clearly formulate the question and define the problem.

The perfect gift

When one person gives another person a perfect gift, the gift is valuable in three ways:

  1. The gift itself is intrinsically valuable to the one receiving it.
  2. The fact that the giver knows what the receiver will love demonstrates that the giver cares enough to reflect on what the receiver will value and this effort has yielded real insights. The perfect gift is evidence that the giver cares and understands.
  3. The gift becomes symbolic of the receiver’s own relationship to the world — an example what she defines as good. The perfect gift becomes a concrete symbol of the receiver’s ideals, which she others can see and understand, and contributes to the receiver’s own self-understanding and social identity.

Great brand experiences are similar to gifts. When a brand experience is successful the customer gets something valuable, sees tangible proof the company understands and values them, and finds a bit of social affirmation.

Wisdom Management

These days the word “wisdom” is disreputable. For most people, it has no precise, definite meaning which makes it a magnet for charlatans and romantics. Its has connotations ranging from the embarrassing to the offensive: it’s quaint, ludicrous, vague, presumptuous, pompous, flaky. But it also has a certain protected status that makes it slightly taboo to attack it directly (however much the attacks are deserved), and that makes it exponentially annoying. Using the word “wisdom” in a business setting is credibility suicide.

So here we go.

When I say wisdom I actually do have a very specific meaning, and it is a meaning that deserves respect, and not only respect. It deserves enthusiastic adoption and action.

Understanding what wisdom is, how to acquire it and how to share it in a business setting is a huge competitive opportunity.

Here is my definition of wisdom: Wisdom is subjective knowledge, standing between tacit experience and explicit fact, and mediating between them. It is knowing how to navigate one’s own experiences and to gain explicit knowledge about these experiences from having been in them — without reducing the experiences to this explicit knowledge, and without accepting the tacit nature of the experience at face value. What wisdom produces are insights, expressions of truth that help people orient themselves to an experiential point of view and to see from the perspective of that view. Wisdom deals with symbols, relations and relevance. Or to put it in the language of anthropology (which is the science of wisdom), it means tacking back and forth between emic and etic modes of understanding — and then synthesizing these modes into effective practical responses, which is politics (the technology of wisdom), or in application to business, management. Politics and management bring together all the modes of intelligence (scientific, technical, theoretical, and every discipline of business) — each with its own characteristic kind of understanding — to address the situation at hand, and form it into something that achieves the desired experiential outcome.

To date, the business world has mirrored the larger culture in exalting the scientific mode of explicit knowledge, and has become very good at observing and measuring things and behaviors. This is important but it is no longer enough to manage people and knowledge. Organizations also need to learn how to manage its wisdom, to continually improve the lives of customers and employees and of our culture.

Brand and story

The sign of a good story: it is absorbing. While the story is being told we are immersed in a different conception of reality.

While we are “really into” the story we not only suspend disbelief in facts and accept what we are hearing as truths within the scope of the story — we also suspend our customary perspective on life and begin to experience the events, the characters and the images of the story in a strangely shifted way that is impossible to describe to a person who has never experienced it.

So, a story deals not only with objective facts (real or fantastical) — it also imparts a subjective ordering of those facts that gives these facts meanings that can be quite different from the meaning they would have out of the context of the story. In a sense, the story uses them to project a different “story-world” around the reader that envelopes the reader and the events, the characters, and the setting of the story. When someone gives a Cliff’s Notes synopsis of a story or when someone attempts to relate something that happened, and gives up saying “You just had to be there,” this story-world is what is what is missing and makes the experience feel flat.

In exceptionally good stories even when we are pulled away from your book, back into reality — the world of actual facts — the story-world lingers and influences our experience of reality. Previously unnoticed details of our environment stand out. We see subtle details in stranger’s behavior as somehow more significant, and we feel a sympathetic connection. Sometimes life as a whole is infused with a mood that seems to belong to the story. We might even hear ourselves say things, and it strikes our ears as resembling the voice of one the characters in the story. When the story ends, we are sad, not only that the entertainment has come to an end, but also because we know our own lives will fade back to its usual colors .

Literature is a special class of story that supplies the reader with devices to preserve the story’s influence on the reader’s world. Literary symbols become tangible reference points to the reader, serving the function of stars to a navigator, helping the reader orient himself and make sense of where he is and where he might want to go. Certain vivid events or bits of dialogue can become anchoring structures, and give form and voice to situations that might otherwise seem hopelessly formless and indescribable. Literary characters also tend to have almost archetypal qualities and become part of one’s typological vocabulary. Finally, literature can contain parable-forms, which exhibit abstract structures that that can order aspects of reality that might not even have been recognized as existent at all if one had not learned the structures and had them available as paradigms.

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The difference between a really engaging experience sponsored by a brand, and a really engaging brand experience is analogous to the difference between story and literature. An engaging experience absorbs a customer for a time, but when the customer leaves the experience, it is forgotten. There are ways to work around this, like figuring out clever ways to keep reminding the customer to come back, but these tactics are signs that perhaps the experience itself is wanting. The effective brand experience on the other hand, leaves behind its own offerings and its own brand artifacts as a means to integrate the story into the customer’s own life, like literature leaves its symbols, archetypes and structures.

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The “objective” elements that constitute a story are only the vehicle of a story whose essence is actually between the facts and makes the facts meaning, and makes them a story. What makes a story a story, and what breathes life into the facts is subjective truth. Without it, a story does not engage us, will not absorb us, will not immerse us in a new world, will not touch our sense of reality. It will just be a series of causally connected, stylistically unified moments and elements.  Exactly the same thing can be said for brands. Some brands are just lists of statements about and attributes of an organization or product with no resonance or significance beyond its object. That’s fine for some brand problems, but it won’t do if a brand aspires to really connect with people.

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A note about objectivity and subjectivity: What can be comprehended (com- ‘together’ + prehendere ‘lay hold of.’) in a story — what our mind can wrap its fingers around — is precisely what the story is not. The story wraps itself around us, and we become participants in it.

It is deeply uncomfortable to try to think about this. We cannot think in the usual way in coming to terms with it. We cannot comprehend it, because it comprehends us, in the sense that it grips us, involves us and holds our experience of the story together. Trying to grasp it is like trying to pick up a room we are inside. We can only touch it with our fingertips, but our fingers cannot wrap around it to grasp it. The edges are too big for our hands. Rather we apprehend (ap- ‘toward’ + prehendere ‘lay hold of.’) our involvement, and try to orient ourselves in it.

The same can be said about brands. What the brand is can only be pointed to or evoked, not contained in any document. Or at least that is the case for engaging immersive brands. Many brands like many stories lack subjective truth. They’re just not very good, but the problem is not one that can really be characterized in objective terms.

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A brand is the subjective truth about who and organization is and what it does. A story is the most effective way to share such truths.

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Objective truth is a style of thinking suited to objects, things with defined shapes that we can grasp with our minds like a like a stone or a piece of fruit — things we can observe, count, possess and control. Subjective truth is shaped like a world, and we know it only by being in it and participating in it.

To equate knowledge with objectivity is to reject the most important shared truths of life, the very foundation of genuine community.

Substantiation

Years ago I read a passage from Thomas Kuhn’s Structure of Scientific Revolutions which caused me to understand the importance of examples in illustrating concepts in a deeply different way. (This book is infamous for unleashing  the expression “paradigm shift” on the world.)

What Kuhn helped me grasp was that examples do not only illuminate or prove a theoretical statement — they give the theoretical statement its sense.

Why am I talking about this here? The ends experience strategists try to accomplish, the means we use to accomplish them, and the language and concepts we use to talk about our means and ends are very abstract. Our clients are often flying blind. They know (sometimes vaguely) what they hope to accomplish by way of “improving the customer experience”, but much of what leads up to this improvement is either confused, force-fitted into more familiar (mis)conceptions, or fragmentary, wispy or left a frank mystery. When we supply a client examples we are not only reassuring them that we are capable of solving their problems for them — we are also helping them understand how to see their problems in clearer and more productive terms.

If you’re interested, here’s a large chunk of the quote (bolds added):

Philosophers of science have not ordinarily discussed the problems encountered by a student in laboratories or in science texts, for these are thought to supply only practice in the application of what the student already knows. He cannot, it is said, solve problems at all unless he has first learned the theory and some rules for applying it. Scientific knowledge is embedded in theory and rules; problems are supplied to gain facility in their application. I have tried to argue, however, that this localization of the cognitive content of science is wrong. After the student has done many problems, he may gain only added facility by solving more. But at the start and for some time after, doing problems is learning consequential things about nature. In the absence of such exemplars, the laws and theories he has previously learned would have little empirical content.

To indicate what I have in mind I revert briefly to symbolic generalizations. One widely shared example is Newton’s Second Law of Motion, generally written as f = ma. The sociologist, say, or the linguist who discovers that the corresponding expression is unproblematically uttered and received by the members of a given community will not, without much additional investigation, have learned a great deal about what either the expression or the terms in it mean, about how the scientists of the community attach the expression to nature. Indeed, the fact that they accept it without question and use it as a point at which to introduce logical and mathematical manipulation does not of itself imply that they agree at all about such matters as meaning and application. Of course they do agree to a considerable extent, or the fact would rapidly emerge from their subsequent conversation. But one may well ask at what point and by what means they have come to do so. How have they learned, faced with a given experimental situation, to pick out the relevant forces, masses, and accelerations?

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A phenomenon familiar to both students of science and historians of science provides a clue. The former regularly report that they have read through a chapter of their text, understood it perfectly, but nonetheless had difficulty solving a number of the problems at the chapter’s end. Ordinarily, also, those difficulties dissolve in the same way. The student discovers, with or without the assistance of his instructor, a way to see his problem as like a problem he has already encountered. Having seen the resemblance, grasped the analogy between two or more distinct problems, he can interrelate symbols and attach them to nature in the ways that have proved effective before. The law-sketch, say f = nw, has functioned as a tool, informing the student what similarities to look for, signaling the gestalt in which the situation is to be seen. The resultant ability to see a variety of situations as like each other, as subjects for f = nw or some other symbolic generalization, is, I think, the main thing a student acquires by doing exemplary problems, whether with a pencil and paper or in a well-designed laboratory. After he has completed a certain number, which may vary widely from one individual to the next, he views the situations that confront him as a scientist in the same gestalt as other members of his specialists’ group. For him they are no longer the same situations he had encountered when his training began. He has meanwhile assimilated a time-tested and group-licensed way of seeing.

The role of acquired similarity relations also shows clearly in the history of science. Scientists solve puzzles by modeling them on previous puzzle-solutions, often with only minimal recourse to symbolic generalizations. Galileo found that a ball rolling down an incline acquires just enough velocity to return it to the same vertical height on a second incline of any slope, and he learned to see that experimental situation as like the pendulum with a point-mass for a bob.

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That example should begin to make clear what I mean by learning from problems to see situations as like each other, as subjects for the application of the same scientific law or law-sketch. Simultaneously it should show why I refer to the consequential knowledge of nature acquired while learning the similarity relationship and thereafter embodied in a way of viewing physical situations rather than in rules or laws. . . .  the verbal statement of the law, taken by itself, is virtually impotent. Present it to a contemporary student of physics, who knows the words and can do all these problems but now employs different means. Then imagine what the words, though all well known, can have said to a man who did not know even the problems. For him the generalization could begin to function only when he learned to recognize “actual descents” and “potential ascents” as ingredients of nature, and that is to learn something, prior to the law, about the situations that nature does and does not present. That sort of learning is not acquired by exclusively verbal means. Rather it comes as one is given words together with concrete examples of how they function in use; nature and words are learned together. To borrow once more Michael Polanyi’s useful phrase, what results from this process is “tacit knowledge” which is learned by doing science rather than by acquiring rules for doing it.

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In my opinion, getting a better grasp of what tacit knowledge is, what it effects, how to research it and how to employ it in design is the most interesting and explosively promising area of exploration in experience strategy and design.

In pursuit of this goal, I’ve been reading Suzanne Langer’s Philosophy in a New Key, whose central idea is that human beings use two different kinds of symbolic meaning to order our existences, and James Spradley’s  The Ethnographic Interview which teaches methods for learning about and analyzing (at least some of) these symbolic meanings. Very exciting stuff.